In the hustle and bustle of our modern world, one of the most overlooked issues is the silent battle young people are facing against the allure of screens. It’s reminiscent of putting a ferocious orca in a tank all alone, just to see how it behaves. Unlike the orca, however, there’s a concerted effort to keep young people glued to their screens, replacing real-world experiences with a digital substitute. This trend is most alarming among young men, who are seemingly on a path to become a species characterized by a lack of social and romantic interaction.
Society is noticing an alarming trend: young men ages 20 to 30 are reportedly spending less time outdoors than even prison inmates. Imagine trading the sun, socializing, and real-life hustle for the seemingly limitless scroll of online platforms. These young individuals are being enticed by tech giants who promise a facsimile of life — all within the confines of a glowing screen. Why face the real world with all its messy, unpredictable interactions when they can retreat to the safety of gaming on Discord, engaging with Reddit, or trading cryptocurrencies?
What is at stake here is more than just a preference for virtual over reality. With this behavioral trend, there lies a deeper, more concerning evolution — towards an asocial and perhaps even asexual way of life. Human interaction, the very fabric of societal progress, is being replaced with a dopamine hit from a “like” on social media. Let’s face it; scrolling through feeds is an experience terribly lacking in the complexity and satisfaction found in real-world encounters, yet many are being seduced by its simplicity and immediate gratification.
The digital age, with all its advancements, was predicted to usher in a new realm of connectivity and opportunity. Instead, it seems to have tapped into our innate vulnerabilities, exploiting them for profit. These young men, chasing synthetic experiences online, sit in stark contrast to the days when people found joy in tangible experiences — courting someone face-to-face, feeling the wind while walking to work, and battling through the ups and downs of personal relationships. All of this is being traded in for the hollow rewards facilitated through a screen.
The consequences extend beyond just personal development; they have profound implications on economic futures and the health of communities. If the trend continues, society may wake up to find that it’s not just an orca in a tank but generations of men trapped in a virtual abyss. It’s time to rethink priorities and recognize the importance of genuine, face-to-face connections. If we allow this tech-facilitated isolation to persist, well, we’ll have plenty to ponder next time we ponder why society seems to be leaving young men behind.

